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Some advice from a College Freshmen

“Well shit that went fast” is all I can think when I look at the ragged mess of a deconstructed loft, strewn clothes, and empty suitcases thrown around my room. It’s been a while since I have written, since last summer actually, but what a better time to get back at it and reflect on this what a whirwind journey this year has been. My freshmen year of college has been one of the most rediculous and insanely fun years of my life and it is bittersweet that it is now over. I have met the most amazing friends this year and have really grown as a person. I have learned about what excites me and what I look forward to in the future. I have set goals for myself that in the past never thought I could achieve but now know I have all the promise in the world to. College gives you tools and insights that are priceless. College surounds you with intellectuals that inspire and push you to achieve. College surrounds you with some of the most brilliant and driven people you will ever have the privalidge of sitting down and having a conversation with. The best part is that people in college all have a few simular goals but most importantly they are here because they want to learn not because they are forced to. The strive to learn is the most important distiguisher between college and highschool, plus you get to learn what you want to learn. For the first time in my young adult life I have actual been given all the power to chose what I LEARN, all the power to chose who I want to BE, and all the power to choose my own PATH in life.

My classes have challenged me more than I ever imagined. Classes like my seminar through the Honor’s College known as Texts and Critics stretched the very fibers of my brain and changed my outlook on both life and the rest of the world. This class single handledly expanded my horrisons. Chemistry 141 (though I had previously taken two years of highschool chemistry) nearly killed me to get a B. So if there is one tip I can give anyone is HIGHSCHOOL DOES NOT MATTER COLLEGE IS FREAKING HARD. Yes previous knowledge is awesome and so helpful, but man ya still got to study your but off no matter how much you think you know. HIGHSCHOOL DOES NOT MATTER in the areas of academia. NO ONE CARES that you were the captain of the football team or the prettiest cheerleader Everyone has their highschool diploma, everyone has their own story, and yes stories are fun to share, but don’t let highschool define who you are because frankly most people just want to move on with their lives and leave highschool in the past. I have grown so much since my highschool self so DON’T LET THOOSE YEARS DEFINE YOU.

YOU WILL MISS HOME MORE THAN YOU THINK! and this is totally okay! I love my parents and my brother. They know me better than I even know myself sometimes. Call them often because they miss you way more than you miss them and they want to know that there baby is doing well and thriving in college. Let them give you advice because they have been there and done that and they can and will help you avoid the same mistakes they have made in the past. Plus when they come to visit it often means a trip to your new favorite resturaunt in town and who doesn’t love free food? Especially on a broke college kid’s budget.

That brings me to my next very important tid bit of advise; SAVE WAY MORE SPENDING MONEY THAN YOU EVER THINK YOU COULD NEED. College is expensive. For me I am in a new town with new things to explore, new places to eat, lots of beer to drink, exploring, camping, roadtripping, and skiing that all costs money. It may not seem like a lot at the time but the expenses really do add up in the end. Now you don’t need endless gobs of money to have a good time in college it just is also really awesome to have a bit of spending money to take spontanious trips to Colorado for opening weekend at Abasin like I decided to take.

  1. Eat at the dinning halls: yes sometimes the food stinks and yes they most definitely get old after a while but there are a few things going on here: a) you probably paid thousands of dollars to eat there so might as well get your money’s worth and b) eating out gets really expensive but is a great treat every once and a while. Plus the money you don’t spend on food can be put towards awesome adventures with your new found friends.
  2. Walk as much as you can: College campuses have a lot going on near and on campus so take advantage of that. Also walking and biking everywhere is a great way to get outside, take a break from studying, and to stay in shape. But most importantly it saves you your hard earned money!
  3. Get an on campus job: These jobs are awesome and typically there are a bunch of them you can apply for. The best part is you can work just a few hours a week if thats all you have time for and you want a bit of a steady income for more spending money down the line. I worked at the front desk of my residence hall on campus for only five hours a week and it was the best decision I made. It wasn’t a ton of money but the little bit of income definitely helped suppliment what I saved over the summer. Heres a litte break down: I came to college with about $700 and ended up making about $2000 and also ended up spending almost all of that money (i.e. I’m pretty damn broke at the moment). Now keep in mind I bought skis and a ticket + gas to sasquatch this may with that money, but it still goes to show I managed to spend a great deal of money this year. I could do college much much cheaper but I did do a lot of traveling this year and just spending in general and don’t regret any of it.
  4. Take advantage of the free events on campus: Campuses often have loads of free events and entertainment to go to or very cheap admission priceses to things. For instance we have a movie theater on campus that shows two dollar movies and our football games were free for students.

As far as meeting people goes don’t be afraid. Everyone is new and everyone is scared. They are in a new place surrounded by loads of people they have never met before. The dinning halls are a fantastic way to meat people. Don’t be affraid to sit down with random people and spark up conversations. Also the dorms in general are fantastic for meeting new people. Get to know your floormates and leave your door open when your around so people feel welcomed to stop by. I also met a bunch of people through the facebook page my college had set up for my class last spring. A group chat through the app group me sparked up and I am still really close to many of the people I met that way. Also don’t expect your roomate to become your best friend or the first people you meet to be your friends forever. You will find your people and you will know it.

One of the biggest things I wanted to touch on in this now pretty dang lengthy post is just to have fun. College is about experiencing new things and experiencing things you never thought you would. Do as much as you can. The netflix seshes can wait till later. GO OUT AND DO THINGS. School work is extremely important but don’t be completely absorbed by it constantly. Put time aside for studying but durring the rest go have fun and meet people. Go on spontaneous adventures, learn to climb, go skiing, go hiking, go running, have cheesy movie marathons with your friends, go on dates, and most importantly discover who you want to be.

I also just want to quickly say DON’T WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE. This isn’t highschool you wont get judged for wearing sweats to your 8 AM, chances are everyone else woke up five minuetes ago too.

Anyway here are some of my favorite pictures from the year.

Enjoy my shenanigans, there were a lot.

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